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taffy
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Oswestry Shropshire.
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Posted - 15/11/2010 :  08:43:56  Show Profile  Visit taffy's Homepage Send taffy a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Hello, No point in telling you to fight on, as we all know you will, your courage will eventually win the day. My best to you both. taffy
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 15/11/2010 :  18:53:24  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
It must be the soldier, I really enjoy a hard fight - grin.

Thanks to both of you.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


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Posted - 25/11/2010 :  19:15:48  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Update: got my GP on my side and my MP has written to them.

My OT and Social Worker are also lending support.


Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 14/12/2010 :  01:52:06  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Oddenstein: "OK, now pass this bar under the two ropes..."

Oddment: "OK, does that say perl?"

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


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Posted - 01/01/2011 :  15:32:09  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Oddment: "I have been standing on this bar for 2 weeks as well, do you want me to do parrot impressions?"

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 27/01/2011 :  14:44:39  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Oddment: "You should have said..."

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


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Posted - 18/03/2011 :  22:27:39  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
My landlord has, so far declined to make any decision on the ramp beyond telling me that she intends to sell the house in 2 years time.

Informed my OT who says that they cannot authorise a ramp.

Now looking for somewhere else to live, but got plenty of time to play with and we have decided to stay here and save like mad.

The wheelchair service informed my MP that they will not take the chair, but have not informed me of anything, so think they are worried about adverse publicity and politics.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 25/05/2011 :  16:30:08  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
The ramp and adaptions will be fitted in July 2011.

The landlord has been persuaded to give written permission and we should be OK for the next 5 years - ha-ha - still reckon we might be out in 2, but that's life these days.

On the ASD front I am not coping with the stress and anxiety and went through a time of eating very little, so have managed to lose half a stone of weight.

Also started gardening and building a new garden in the rear and have muscled up and put on weight.

I have done no writing for over 3 months and have stopped going to all of my community groups - my life is on hold until Nell is better - part of me resents this and the crocs want me to get writing their books: the practicallities of love and everyday life can be bloody annoying when one needs to be creative.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 08/07/2011 :  16:25:16  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Been looking at my diary and it is nearly 3 years that Nell was in severe pain from the old stoma, now Nell is feeling better, but I seem to have slumped and only seem to be sleeping and do not feel like doing anything.

Think it could be that the past anxiety has relaxed and my body needs to make up for lost sleep and for being in a heightened state of alert for several years.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 27/07/2011 :  07:48:55  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Starting to feel better in my mind and I am accepting the additional problems with my speech and emotionally I am less angry and more accepting of what is happening to me.

I am still at the 'Why me?' stage, especially with everything else that I have and Nell has, though i am finding advantages with this enforced silence and i want to experience the full effect of being silent and enjyoing silence, it is a sea of calm that sits at the edge of my known universe and I am slowly and irrestibly drawn towards its tranquil waters.

I am taking things more slowly and taking my time to type and this seems to have improved my spelling though there are a lot of words that do not seem to be in my mental dictionary anymore and I need to have a physical one on my desk.

On the speaking side I am OK with stock phrases and everyday things but anything out of the ordinary that requires thinking while speaking and all that comes out is gibberish.

Fortunately I had already cut back on my community groups in order to care for Nell, so most people are not aware of it.

However, it is affecting Nell and I am very aware for this but shall find ways to interact, speak and cope, and, enjoy life together.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 27/07/2011 :  07:50:06  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
The ramp is supposed to be fitted next week - maybe...

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 29/07/2011 :  08:33:47  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I have just written one of the hardest and least nice emails of my life and I am gutted and really sad that I have failed to make good on the mod job on FLOW.

My latest fall and the mental effects forced Nell and i to look at what is sensible and possible for me to do, although my mind still works the rest of me is not and I have had to come to terms with the ending of being able to do everything and force my body to obey my mind is no longer working.

Emo is a bit bloody now and lang is as well, anger at self mostly.

Patience have and acceptance of what must be.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 17/08/2011 :  16:33:32  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
It is very odd that one can love someone very much and yet hate them and their disablement and feel guilty about it; that one is so very tired of trying to understand of trying to find ways to help and yet knowing that deep down where it matters there is nothing that you can do to alleviate one's partner's pain and suffering.

We have talked about it and about the consequences if things turn out badly and Nell knows that my grief process does not really exist, yes I shall miss her but I do not have grief.

My reaction to the death of a female friend is to look for a replacement - life goes on and so do I.

I suppose that there is always that nagging fear in my mind, will it be today that I find she is dead - the anxiety burns holes in my mind - I push it away and try to spend as much time with Nell as I can and as our disablements allow.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 01/09/2011 :  14:32:15  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Nell is getting to be more cheerful and is still trying to do too much, but on the other hand it is psychologically good for her to do things.

Today she has been doing some basic ironing and yesterday managed to do the vacuuming downstairs.

I hope her good mood continues because it keeps her pain levels much lower and Nell is enjoying life.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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Chris Green
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Newark-upon-Trent
United Kingdom


2301 Posts

Posted - 06/09/2011 :  21:42:18  Show Profile  Visit Chris Green's Homepage Send Chris Green a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Pain levels have been very bad these past few days and am exceedingly aggressive and am mulling over what to do in relation to some hearsay that suggests some people may be guilty of fraud.

If this is the case it will be a serious blow for a local/national charity.

Regards,
Chris Green
frankgreen2@virginmedia.com
http://chrisgreen.weebly.com/

Service before self

'A Poppy in My Buttonhole' available now SEE:
http://www.rossendalebooks.co.uk/
http://www.lulu.com/content/2791550

My next book will be "The Crcodile Chronicles" and is projected to be launched 2015 or a quarter past eight in time for Christmas.
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